Friday, August 7, 2009

The Day Martha Stewart Emailed

I began writing my wedding blog in 2006 (which came years after I began a personal blog in 1999).  In the Spring of 2007, I received an email from one of the editors at Martha Stewart. She confided that she had spent far too much time at her desk reading through my blog’s archives and encouraged me to keep writing it.  The email included a couple of other paragraphs, but the gist of it was "what you are doing is great, keep at it."  Needless to say, her email made my day, if not my year.

Here I was, a young entrepreneur, hammering away at a keyboard every day and those random thoughts that made their way to the blog not only managed to catch the attention of an editor at a magazine that I had read and loved for what seems like forever, but had impressed her enough to prompt her to email me.

I learned quite a bit from that exchange, but one of the things that most stuck with me is that taking three minutes to send an unsolicited email of genuine encouragement can go a long way in helping someone’s trajectory in business.

Around the time she sent that email, I was ready to throw in the towel when it came to the blog. I knew from my analytics that it was reaching a large audience, but those numbers were faceless to me at the time. The truth is that blogging takes quite a bit of commitment (and if you've had a blog for longer than twenty minutes you are well aware of that fact) and I just wasn't sure that it was worth the energy I was investing.  Her email encouraged me to keep it going, and as an indirect result, I now have a book on how to market your business through blogging coming out in November.

So my challenge to you is this: take three minutes each Friday to send an email to someone you admire professionally letting them know.  It may be just what they need to hear at the time.

17 comments:

A DAY TO REMEMBER said...

Liene...

That is just awesome! Great story and great thoughts!

Looking forward to your book!

--Claudia :)

Michelle Barrionuevo-Mazzini said...

Great post Liene and congrats on the book. Aren't we all glad you continued to write, as I too am a fan of your blog!

Amber Events said...

Great tip, Liene. I personally have a "kudos" folder in my inbox for the days I'm feeling a bit down. Those emails of encouragement, thank you's, and good jobs keep me plugging away!

I need to start sending some of those emails to other people.

Karla |Stylish Events| said...

Congratulations on your book, Liene! It's great that you shared this with us because it proves how much small gestures can motivate othe people.

Alyse Woodward Events - North Carolina Wedding Planner said...

I love this post - so true. Congratulations on your book Liene!

Ashley said...

Great idea! I love when people tell me how much they love my ideas and my blog. It makes me want to keep blogging.

Howerton+Wooten Events said...

What a lovely idea! I hope there are numerous phone calls of encouragement next Friday.

Love & Soul Always, Kay

Lucky Designs said...

Thank you for the post. I love little acts of kindness (and thoughtfulness).

Carter & Cook Event Co. said...

What a great post. I just love YOUR blog and am encouraged each day by your insight, professionalism and creativity. Thank you for blogging! :) Ashlyn Carter

People St.Clair said...

Thank you for posting this. It's the littlest of gestures that go such a long way. Congrats on your book I'm looking forward to it.

Jessica said...

So true. And I think it is especially true in the creative field where because we just want to be heard. That little letter makes us feel like someone is listening. One person is an audience. Great post.

Starry Night Design Studio said...

Thanks so much for the post....
I will learn a lot here.

Pamela Parker said...

Thanks Liene,
I love the Friday idea. Instead of just saying "I should do that someday".

Modern Bride Guide said...

Entrepreneurship is a total rollercoaster ride and praise like that can do wonders! Just a reminder to keep on keeping on :) Thanks for the inspirational post!

RaquelMideau said...

Hi Liene,

Great post! You are truly inspirational; especially to someone considering launching a creative business of their own. Can't wait for the book release in Nov.

Have a great week!
Raquel

Erica said...

Liene,

Thank you for all your hard work. Your blog helps a lot of professionals. We are forever thankful.

-Erica

Meagan said...

Great thoughts Liene! I believe in this random support it does go a long way. I also appreciate your candor about wanting to throw in the towel on the blog in those days, many of us can so relate, but don't always say it out loud, thanks for the honesty!